Everything depends on you!

Generally, shame and self-confidence depend on several factors. First of all, it appears during our childhood in our unconscious.

Caused by the mockery due to our clothes, our way of being or our family. Do not imagine that only those who hate you will be mean to you and make fun of you. On the contrary, it is more hurtful when it comes from a loved one, a friend. I admit that I don't understand why the world turns like this, and why men behave like this. No one deserves to be hurt and ashamed of themselves. Nothing can justify abusive and inappropriate behavior.

Social media also doesn't help there. When we grow up, social networks become our daily life and it is at this time that it is not only our acquaintances and our loved ones who can hurt us and make us feel ashamed by our own person but strangers. Strangers who we never talked to, whom we never met on the street. And yet they allow themselves to criticize us as well as to have an opinion on ourselves. In real life too, people make fun of us and at that moment watching others import us a little more each day.

Before you even believe what others can say, ask yourself who you think and who you really are and what you deserve. Only you can make a difference. Be strong, live your life as you see fit.

Justine.