Vision of shame

Shame. But what shame? The shame of others? Self-shame? I can't say which one and the most devastating.

On the one hand, the shame of others destroys all social relations. Feeling ashamed, embarrassed through someone else. Through his presence makes us doubly ashamed. But in reality we exclude themselves from society and an entourage. We then find ourselves and the feelings that flow from it are just as devastating.

While being ashamed of either, one excludes oneself just as much of fear that one feels even more this excruciating feeling. You should know that both exist and that they do a lot of damage. The whole point now is how you can live with it. Until maybe forget it for so many moments. If you want to get out of it, you have to know exactly where it came from. This powerful feeling of shame actually comes from a memory inked in us, in connection with the situation, which particularly affects us. For the for a subject to touch us it must be familiar to us. To define this memory is to define the source of this shame.

Shame actually comes from a situation, we feel a misunderstanding of a situation that we have neither understood nor even foreseen, let alone envisaged.

We must succeed in detaching ourselves from this misunderstanding, learn to put into perspective. If some people don't understand how you think no matter what. Others will understand it and even if it is not, your decisions your choices are up to you. Don't be ashamed of who you are and who accompanies your lives. You don't have to be an executioner or a victim in this world. We have to be who we are and you will see that we rarely have time to waste our time with these kinds of feelings. They will prevent them from advancing like a cannonball. Don't be that ball that keeps you from seeing the beauty of the world.

Marie.